Do you have something in your life you want to change?


You're not alone.

And you don’t have to figure it out alone, either.

Build from the Inside Out

The Usual Way


Most people try to push harder, hustle more, or set bigger goals — hoping that will finally make the difference.

But here’s the truth: change that sticks doesn’t start from the outside. It starts from the inside — from knowing what really matters to you, deep down.

If you've tried before and felt stuck, you’re not broken. You just need a different way — one that's simpler, clearer, and built for real life.

The Better Way


At Calm by Purpose, we believe lasting change starts when you build from the inside out.

We guide you step-by-step — helping you uncover your core value, connect to your motivation, and build a future that's truly yours.

And the best part? You won’t be doing it alone. You’ll join a group of people who are walking the same path, together.

How it works  

Step 1: Get Clear

Take a powerful, simple assessment to uncover your most important core value — your true starting point.

Start Your Journey

Step 2: Find Your Why

Explore the deep motivation behind your core value. Know what drives you — and use it to keep moving forward.

Start Your Journey

Step 3: Build Your Future

Shape a plan that feels real, aligned, and inspiring — with a community that has your back every step of the way. 

Start Your Journey

Welcome to a space built for calm, clarity, and purpose.


Here, we move forward by starting from the inside — identifying what truly matters and building a life and work that feels aligned.

We believe growth happens best together.

You’ll find support, inspiration, and people who share your belief that lasting change comes from within. Let’s build something real — side by side.

Join the community for free

Text and photos: Roger Hol


Calm by Purpose


A space for those who seek calm — and choose to create it.


In a world that moves fast, we’ve chosen something different.


Calm by Purpose is for coaches, teachers, therapists, and seekers who want to build a quiet life – not just by accident, but with intention.
 

Here, calm isn’t just a mood.

It’s a value. A choice.

A way of designing your work, your place, and your pace.


We believe:

  • That your core values matter more than trends.

  • That your intrinsic motivation is your true compass.

  • That you can create work that sustains you – even if you live off the beaten track.

  • That nature, beauty, and simplicity are not luxuries, but essentials.


This is where we explore all of it:

  • How to live with calm at the center of your choices.

  • How to find a home in nature (we live in Calabria – quiet, wild, and undiscovered).

  • How to design a life – and a livelihood – rooted in values, not noise.

And yes, we wrote a book about it too.

From Burnout to Balance – Guided by My True Values

You can read it here, one chapter at a time.

Welcome to Calm by Purpose

Let’s create quietly.

 

Come outside peak season, and you might have miles of coastline all to yourself. 

The tranquil energy here makes it easy to relax, unwind, and feel truly at home.

We are Luisa & Roger

 

We first met in Palizzi Marina, Calabria, in August 2024, and since then, we've been traveling between Padova and Palizzi Marina.

At times, we organize and take part in various RETAKE events in Sicily, Calabria, as well as Padova and other locations in northern Italy.

MORE ABOUT US AND RETAKE

Summer Camp 2025 in Palizzi

 

In this small town at the southernmost tip of the Italian mainland, we have a dedicated group.

Every summer, we also organize a Summer Camp, welcoming participants from Retake Padova and Retake Roma.

Join us for an unforgettable summer experience in Palizzi, where we combine volunteer work, cultural exchange, and fun!


Accommodation & Daily Routine


We stay for free in a school provided by the Comune di Palizzi. Accommodation includes shared bedrooms or a large common sleeping area.

  • Mornings: Volunteer work before lunch
  • Afternoons & Evenings: Free time to explore, relax, or join activities


Costs & Responsibilities

  • Shared Costs: Breakfast, lunch, and rental cars
  • Dinner: Each participant covers their own meal
  • Travel: Each person arranges their own transportation


A Unique Cultural Exchange

This year (Summer 2025), our group will be a mix of Italians and Norwegians, creating a fantastic opportunity to make new friends and improve your Italian language skills—all while contributing as a volunteer and gaining valuable experience.

Come and be part of something special!

Would you participate as a volenteer on the southern cost of Calabria? 

Fill in your name, email if you have any special skills that might be useful for our camp

Why Palizzi Marina?


I was drawn to this place, to a quite different way of life, because Calabria, in general, has something no other region has. 

More than anything, it is the encounters with the wonderful people that have captivated me. So what could be more natural than starting with the people who quickly became my friends?


What would the town be without the good people who live here?


When people ask me, what is the one thing that makes this place so unique?

I have to answer: The warm and kind people who have become my friends… and who could easily become your friends too.

We are Luisa & Roger


We meet in Palizzi Marina in Calabria during august 2024, and have since then, been traveling between Padova and Palizzi Marina. 

Sometimes we arrange and particpate in different RETAKE events in Sicilia, Calabria, as well as Padova and other events up north. 

MORE ABOUT US AND RETAKE